A former Relief Society President in a ward I used to attend is an amazing woman. She probably is my favorite RS Pres ever - an incredibly humble, caring, wonderfully-flawed woman.
She wrote an astounding post last year on her personal blog, and I want to provide a link for everyone. I can't recommend it highly enough.
http://betchadidntknow.blogspot.com/201 ... -loss.html
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