Truly Loving Others Requires Different Actions in Different Situations

I don't fight about quite a few things with which I don't agree totally or even largely - because I try to weigh and balance the costs and benefits of fighting about them against loving others as myself.
Most times, in most situations, love of others wins over speaking out; sometimes, love of others requires I speak up; always, love of others requires I speak carefully and thoughtfully whenever I speak up.
 
I have regretted every instance of when I have failed to do so.