A friend of mine shared the following experience with me. I wish it was true in every case, but it is a standard for which we ought to strive:
I have always felt fortunate to be in a good ward filled with imperfect but basically good people. To illustrate:
A
few months ago, a young man in my ward returned early from his mission
after only a few months. I don't know the details surrounding his
early departure except that it wasn't a worthiness issue. It probably
had more to do with the stress associated with the mission experience.
He was so ashamed that he didn't come to church for the first two weeks
he was home and after that only to sacrament meeting for several weeks.
Finally, he started attending the other meetings as well, sitting in
the back as unobtrusively as he could. So many young men who come home
early struggle with remaining active, I wondered what would happen to
him. I found out last Sunday.
At the end of fast and testimony
meeting, this same young man walked up to the podium. You could have
heard a pin drop. Haltingly, he explained that he'd come home early
from his mission. He briefly described the shame he had felt and how he
had not wanted to come to church for a long time. With tears in his
eyes, he thanked the ward for being so kind to him when he did return.
He thanked the bishopric and his parents as well for their support
during this difficult time. It was not the most eloquent testimony I
ever heard but definitely one of the most sincere. I listened with tears
in my own eyes and thought to myself:
"No recriminations or
speculations. No awkwardness or judgment. Just good people concerned
for the welfare of one of their own. So this is what Zion is like."
2 comments:
My daughter came home from her mission early due to health concerns. What really bothered me was her mission president told her that her father (me) would be disappointed with her. I assured my daughter that I was not disappointed in her and that it took real courage to stand up to a coercive MP. A friend who had been a mission president and speaks Spanish was able to intervene.
After her health concerns were addressed, she was able to return to the mission field and complete her mission.
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