tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3199387660357003170.post523114749995075597..comments2023-12-26T10:22:04.630-05:00Comments on Things of My Soul: Understanding and Learning from CorrectionPapa Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06704974609266088416noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3199387660357003170.post-77167749716772787352011-02-08T13:55:02.635-05:002011-02-08T13:55:02.635-05:00I think it also takes a great deal of personal pow...I think it also takes a great deal of personal power not to be hurt by something which is said with the intention to hurt.Sometimes it is the intent which is painful.Whilst I see your point,sometimes people are insulting and abusive,and withdrawing is the least contentious thing to do.Sometimes we just need to shelter our souls from damage.<br /><br />This can be particularly challenging when theAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3199387660357003170.post-64933645882862830862011-02-07T22:07:44.126-05:002011-02-07T22:07:44.126-05:00That is a common problem for people with self-este...That is a common problem for people with self-esteem issues - and those happen for multiple reasons, including abuse, unfortunately. In those situations, it's really hard to break the cycle and learn not to end up in that situation - but it's an effort that certainly is worth making, and it often requires removing one's self from the abusive relationship. <br /><br />That also is a Papa Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06704974609266088416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3199387660357003170.post-7491876109504351182011-02-07T15:52:13.649-05:002011-02-07T15:52:13.649-05:00Yeah, the problem comes when you take it and can&#...Yeah, the problem comes when you take it and can't find anything of value in the criticism, and descend into despondency because obviously something is deeply wrong with you if you can't even seen clearly enough to find the value in what is said.SilverRainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00580230961425635077noreply@blogger.com