tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31993876603570031702012-02-01T17:18:05.410-05:00We talk of Christ . . . and we write according to our (understanding), that our children (and friends) may know to what source they may look for a remission of their sins. (2 Nephi 25:26)Papa Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06704974609266088416noreply@blogger.comBlogger11701100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3199387660357003170.post-10891287253519441352012-02-01T00:04:00.018-05:002012-02-01T00:04:00.586-05:00

As many of you know, I have written farily extensively about racism - especially given my experience helping to raise and house a couple of black young men.  The following are just some random thoughts that crossed my mind as I thought again about this topic: 1) Unfortunately, judging people who are different as inferior is one of the most deeply ingrained "natural (wo)man" tendencies in

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The Bent Petals - Tracy M.  (Dandelion Mama)

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In psychology, an accepted truism is that it takes only one bad experience to outweigh about seven good experiences in the typical human memory. It's important to keep that in mind - that I, you, a bishop, a RS Pres, a Prophet, an apostle, whoever might make only one "mistake" in every eight things s/he does and says, but it is that one mistake that tends to be remembered as the example of the

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Everything is official and public now, so I can explain my post last Saturday in more detail here. For the past two-and-a-half years, I have been an Admission Counselor at Culver-Stockton College - a wonderful, small, liberal arts college in Missouri.  My main responsibility has been recruiting students, but I also have functioned officially this past year as the Student Admission Assistants

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Consider this from Joseph Smith: I teach them correct PRINCIPLES, and they govern themselves. Obviously, kids at various ages are more or less able to "govern themselves" properly, but the point is that he said "principles" - NOT "details" or "facts". When I talk with my kids, I let them know that I am willing to accept as possible LOTS of different details or facts or perspectives - as long

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All Imperfect - Tracy M. (By Common Consent)

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I have heard people state that the use of certain words in the Book of Mormon are anachronistic and, therefore, proof that the book isn't what Joseph claimed it to be.  One of those words is "synagogue" - since that particular word was not coined until after the time period discussed in the Book of Mormon.  Nearly all of these charges are non-starters for me, for a very simple reason - and I

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A friend of mine once wrote the following incredibly profound comment in a discussion of Love, Justice and Mercy: There is no law of justice. This is a misnomer that does not appear in the text of scriptures anywhere. There are rights of mercy and demands of justice. God must respect the demands of justice or He would cease to be God. The rights of mercy must be claimed by one who can

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I believe passionately in the concept of communal salvation - that they without us and we without them cannot be made perfect (whole, complete, fully developed). I really dislike the idea that our eternal end is purely a personal pursuit. It justifies WAY too much arrogance and condescension and neglect - and even blatant abuse and disregard. I believe in organized religion, since I believe

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I am not writing my regular New Year's Resolution post tonight.  I have been contemplating the topic I intended to address all week, but my life just took a sudden and dramatic turn - and I am going to be scrambling for the next few weeks to get everything in order.  Thus, while I will continue to write my regular weekday posts and, hopefully, my New Year's Resolution posts as frequently as

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I've gone to the temple and experienced the endowment enough that I rarely pay close attention anymore to the words. Rather, I wait for a thought to strike me and then contemplate it for as long as it takes to feel satisfied. I then repeat that until the time runs out. I've had some AMAZING experiences in the temple, but most of them have come from letting the communal ceremony happen around me

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a brief thought on Matthew 11:28-30 - Bruce Webster (Adventures in Mormonism)

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One of my favorite concepts is summed up in the following line: I will settle into a kingdom when I'm done growing - when I am as complete, whole and fully developed as is possible for me to be.

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"If a woman has to choose between catching a fly ball and saving an infant's life, she will choose to save the infant's life -- without even considering if there are men on base." - Dave Barry

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I hear somewhat frequently online complaints that it's next to impossible to teach a "meaty" lesson from the Church manuals - that it's all milk.  I taught 1 Nephi 1 & 2 in Seminary years ago, and the majority of the time ended up being spent on how the people who are not the extremes (those in the middle) generally get ignored. They are viewed as the "followers" by those who write the

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I decided when I chose my New Year's Resolution topics this year to keep things simple (in order to try to make it accessible to as many people as possible who might read these posts), so, knowing full well the pitfalls of that choice, I am looking at what I as a Mormon can learn from the Jewish perception of "God" - but I am doing so quite shallowly.  (For example, I am using the term "God" in

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There always will be tension between individuality and community in any organization that grows. Every exceptional orchestra, to hearken to Elder Wirthlin's wonderful analogy, simply must have piccolos AND oboes AND trumpets AND clarinets AND percussion . . . I think his talk in General Conference a few years ago, "Concern for the One", was a direct and open acknowledgment that one strident voice

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Methuselah and the Patriarchs: Bizarre Longevity Explained? - Jeff Lindsay (Mormanity)

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One of the most powerful experiences of my life, especially in hindsight, involved the blessing of my second son. He was born three weeks early, but, other than being very small, there was no sign of any physical problem. He left the hospital on schedule and grew normally until this day - nearly 22 years later. Nothing remarkable, until you consider: When he was blessed, I heard myself tell him

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A Surreal Elevator Ride - Jeff Lindsay (Mormanity)

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I believe the best spiritual inoculation method for children simply is creating an open environment where they feel comfortable asking anything - and teaching them what you consider to be correct principles - and being willing to entertain unique perspectives from them. When your children ask a question, do you give them an answer - or do you ask them what they think? When they tell you what

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My New Year's resolution for this month is to look at the 1st Article of Faith and consider how understanding it more fully, from both a Mormon perspective and from the perspectives of other religions, can help me be more Christ-like in the here and now.  I will focus on Buddhism, Islam and Judaism in subsequent posts this month, but I want first to consider the various ways God is described

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Content-wise, not much of our unique doctrine and theology come from the Book of Mormon; most of it is found in the Bible. One of the primary reasons for the Book of Mormon, according to the book itself, is to testify of the Bible - and to open our minds and hearts to the possibility of communing directly with God. I think the Book of Mormon acts as a catalyst to force someone to humble

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Designed for Beauty and Pain - Jeff Lindsay (Mormanity)

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I learned a long time ago that nearly everything is subjective, and in the case of disciplinary councils, I believe rightly so, the public only hears the individual's side of the situation. We are not supposed to hear the other side (the institutional side) - and I think that is appropriate. Those who participate in these councils pledge to not talk about the details, and that is an important and

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How I should like to live my life . . . - Nate Oman (Times & Seasons)

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I was one of those precocious kids who didn't hear anything new in Sunday School for years. That was OK, since I knew there were other kids in my classes who had no (or little) instruction at home and desperately needed the milk. I supplemented my own learning at home with Sunday School, not the other way around. (Thank you, Mom and Dad, for helping me look at it that way - and to Church leaders

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Over the past four years, I have established only one new year's resolution each year: to become more Christlike / godly than I was at the end of the last year.  I have done this by taking specific passages from scripture that articulate multiple characteristics of godliness and pursuing one characteristic each month - not in an attempt to become "perfect" at it that month, but simply to "become"

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The following is a thought-provoking post - and it summarizes, in a way, how I feel about my New Year's Resolutions over the past four years.   Running the Numbers - Maralise (Segullah)

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I see "pure Mormonism" as the most charitable of all Christian theologies - both in the way it treats God and His children. (and I think very, very few people understand what I mean by a charitable treatment of God - but that's for another post) I see various problems in the Church at all levels and in all eras in understanding, internalizing and living pure Mormonism - but that's true,

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I am very open about sex with my kids - and I tell them why I believe what I believe. That, to me, is more important than listing do's and don'ts - explaining why I hold the values I hold. A simple example of something about which I feel passionately and explain to my children very openly: I don't want any of my children to drink, but I approach it slightly differently with my girls. I tell

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Many Perspectives; One Truth - Sliver Rain (The Rains Came Down)

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Whenever I have a leader who says something with which I don't agree to some degree, I always try to put myself in the position of that leader - then treat that leader and their words like I would want others to treat me and my words. I don't want others to accept everything I say as God's own word and "follow" or "obey" me blindly, but I also don't want them to disbelieve and doubt everything

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The following blew me away when I first saw it:

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The following is a wonderful explanation of how our traditional understanding of the Christmas story might be wrong - and I really like the overall picture it paints of Joseph and how he cared for his beloved Mary.  I have no idea how accurate it is historically, but I really like the thought experiment it represents and its conclusions:  The “traditional interpretation” of the story of Jesus’

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I think it's next to impossible to judge how much of what happens in any organization is "prophetic" or "inspired" or "innovative" or "transcendent" (and, especially, "lasting") in the moment. Just like in my own life, sometimes the best benefit of enduring comes from looking back with the perspective of time and realizing why I felt impressed to do something that I didn't understand in the

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I can relate to the verse that says, "This is my beloved son, in whom I am well pleased" - since I have six children in whom I am well pleased. The following link is to a post written by one of my daughters when she was 15 years old - an amazingly profound thought about building our houses upon the rock.  I know I am biased as her father, but it truly is profound. The Wise Man Built His House

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One of the students with whom I was communicating as part of my job a while ago had a tagline for her e-mails that I absolutely love - and I think it encapsulates beautifully and succinctly something that really is profound. All of us are born into a world of struggle and turmoil - of some sort and to some degree. In the middle of all of that, I hope we can understand and remember something

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On Being Lost - Norbert (By Common Consent)

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The reason I personally like the custom of not using God's name is that it doesn't tie God to one name - allowing God to be all names to all people. I absolutely think God would allow and appreciate that - and I have a personal experience as to why I say that. My name is Curtis Ray. I grew up as Ray to my friends and most family, since my father is Curtis. However, I also have an uncle Ray on

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Twenty-five years ago tomorrow Mama said "Yes" to a simple question in the Provo temple.  It changed my life, and I will be grateful eternally for her answer.  She loves "our songs" - so I thought I would pay tribute to my eternal companion in a way that she does regularly on her own blog for special occasions.   The following are two of "our songs" that express very well how I feel: Colin

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When we begin to awaken to the light of the soul, life takes on a new depth. The losses we have suffered, the delight and peace we have experienced, the beauty we have known, all things belong together in a profound way. One of the greatest treasures in the world is a contented heart. When we befriend the twilight side of the heart, we discover a surer tranquility where the darkness and the

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A friend of mine, whom I admire greatly for her insight into life and the Gospel, wrote the following almost three years ago.  I thought it was one of the most profound things I'd ever read at the time, and I came across it again and decided to post it here.  I hope it resonates as deeply for those who read it here as it did for me when I first read it:  We talk in the church about being a

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I am convinced the LDS Church literally provides what it claims to provide for many of its members - an assurance that they need in this life based on a vision of the next life. I believe it literally provides for me what I want from it - a wonderful theological framework, a community in which I find joy in serving, a symbolic compass that enthralls me, a flawed community and organization that

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The Great and Marvelous Change of 3 Nephi 11:1 - Jeff Lindsay (Mormanity) I don't agree with all of the conclusions of the author whose paper Jeff links in this post, but I agree whole-heartedly with the major conclusions and with Jeff's interest in it.  There is much that is assumed about Jesus' visit that simply doesn't match the actual text, and it's good to read a paper and a post that

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I have lived in two wards where judgmentalism was a big issue, but I have lived in at least five wards that were anything but judgmental. It's a mixed bag, and we need to acknowledge that to begin to understand the big picture, I believe. I just want to point out the danger of describing others in judgmental terms while railing against those who are judgmental. I had a friend who left the

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Traditionally, sheep have been used in many ways to personify unthinking obedience.  "Like lambs to the slaughter" and "mindless sheep" are common images, but that image is not what is described in our scriptures when a shepherd enters the picture. In our scriptures, the use of sheep to make a point about our relationship to leaders (principally, the Good Shepherd, our Lord and Master) does not

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Many people don't stop and consider the service side of debt - that every dollar I pay in interest is a dollar I can't give to someone in need. Thus, every dollar of personal debt inhibits my ability to help establish Zion fully.  That alone is worth being debt-free, imo - although I certainly understand the need for some debt for a house, an education and, perhaps, a car. 

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The Work of Healing - J. Stapley (By Common Consent)

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I think we set ourselves up for failure when we set others up for failure. "Unrealistic expectations" is just another name for judgment.

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Our Very Own Stripling Warrior Sons - "Grammy and Papa Frogley" (Called to Serve)

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When I am at the stand asking for a sustaining vote and any who object, I make it a point to look over the congregation thoroughly - and, for the objection part, look behind me at those sitting on the stand, as well. I just think I should do what I can to make sure everyone knows I take the time to look and grant the possibility that there might be someone who would object. In most situations,

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Alma 5:59 says: For what shepherd is there among you having many sheep doth not watch over them, that the wolves enter not and devour his flock? And behold, if a wolf enter his flock doth he not drive him out? Yea, and at the last, if he can, he will destroy him.  When I chose my New Year's Resolution for this month ("Watch over the flock more diligently."), I knew that I was stretching the

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I understand the need for organizational conformity with regard to certain things, but I absolutely LOVE the concept that nobody is "normal" - and that part of fulfilling the measure of MY own, individual creation is finding where I have a "blessed abnormality" and magnifying it.I really believe each and every one of us can accomplish **something** unique in this life - and I believe part of why

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The First Trip - Waldo (Feminist Mormon Housewives)

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I think menial service is incredibly important - another one of life's great paradoxes. Actually, it would be more accurate to say that I believe in the servant model of Jesus' life - which makes all service important, especially the stuff that those who won't deign to do it call menial. To me, the menial is the heart of the Gospel - the Good News that our menial concerns matter to He who

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To Heal the Afflicted - Brad (By Common Consent)

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When I attend church, I have NO expectations of being fed myself. I don't mean this to be boastful in any way, but I have been attending for over 40 years - so I rarely hear anything new. However, I do hear certain things phrased in interesting and "new" ways fairly regularly in my current ward, so when I am enlightened it is nice. I attend consciously to help others - to find ways to phrase

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Although my wife and I are not richly blessed in material things, we are richly blessed.  We have enough to live; we have children we love and who love us; we have a religious foundation that gives us peace and great joy; we have friends and extended family who are a blessing in our lives; the list goes on and on.  One thing for which I am grateful that applies directly to this forum is my

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I've said often that I try to see others from the past the same way I hope people in the future see me - stupid and clumsy and wrong oh so many times, but sincere and loving and kind and trying my best.I really do think that describes the VAST majority of people, and I'd rather be wrong with this view about individuals than be wrong with a more condemning view - since it really isn't about them

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 Helping Those with Lonely Callings - Jeff Lindsay (Mormanity) I know this is not a typical Thanksgiving post, but it hit me as I read Jeff's post that often we overlook people who are performing "lonely callings" - and we ought not do so.  We ought to be thankful for everyone who does anything that helps our religious lives move more smoothly - and we ought to be aware of those who want to do

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When I give a Priesthood blessing I go into it expecting to give comfort - NOT healing or saying anything uniquely profound. I try to be open to whatever might come out of my mouth, but I don't intend to perform miracles.Call it what you will, but I have found that doing so "works" or is "successful" 100% of the time - since I am open to those times where the Lord chooses to speak through me. Of

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Life Lessons: Small Shoulders - Tracy M. (By Common Consent)

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I want my children to know that I am always here for them, but I don't want them to always be here with me.I want them to feel comfortable asking me anything, but I don't want them to ask me everything.I want to be a resource for them, but I don't want to be the source for them.Eventually, I want them to be agents unto themselves - and to become for their children what I was for them.I want them

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As I have contemplated further how to recognize and help those who are poor (especially in non-monetary ways), I have been struck by the need to step back a bit and make a very simple but profound point.  I hope I can do so in a way that is instructive. For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God.  (Romans 3:23) In other words, in very real and critical ways, all of us are poor -

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I once was asked the following:"How would you know, or what would it be like, if God were yelling at you or disciplining you?" That is a fascinating question, especially since I think we have two VERY different paradigms in our canonized scripture - and because we tend to extrapolate our own experiences with our parents onto God (both the positive and the negative ones). First, the background:1)

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The Doctrinal Side of Abuse - Silver Rain (The Rains Came Down)

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[NOTE: This post is about theology, not about people. It is about what religions and denominations teach in their official creeds, not about what members believe and practice at the individual level.] Ultimately, one of the reasons I love Mormon theology so much is that it is such a loving theology - FAR more loving than any other Christian denomination of which I am aware. (I don't count

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Holy, Holy, Holy - Kristine (By Common Consent)

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[NOTE: In this post, I'm not talking about "confessions" to a bishop; I'm talking about discussions in an interview format about the details of the Law of Chasity.]  I believe a Bishop should NEVER ask something specific about sexual practices of a minor unless he has permission from the parent(s) or guardian(s) to do so. It is fine to ask the question EXACTLY as it is worded in the Temple

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Toward the end of last week's New Year's Resolution, I said the following: My initial resolution this month is to recognize the non-monetary needs of the poor (including the non-monetarily poor) and share more readily what I have that will alleviate their poverty. This has been an interesting week, for a number of reasons I want to share in this post: 1) I was able to give blessings to a couple

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[NOTE: I wanted to change the normal post time today, to have this post at 11:11AM on 11/11/11 - but old habits die hard, so I changed it to 12:11AM where I live instead as a compromise. However, it was 11:11 in Utah when this posted. Just sayin'.] Now, back to our regularly scheduled programming:  I personally believe that the core, fundamental, highest command relative to marriage ever

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 A Mormon Image: Greater Love - Julie M. Smith (Times & Seasons)  Read the caption; read the obituary linked in Julie's comment #1; go back and look at the picture and read the caption again.  If your heart isn't touched in a special way, examine your heart. 

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I need to start with a critical disclaimer: I have no problem with the LDS Church's position opposing gay marriage. This post is not about that issue; it is about what I see as a more fundamental issue.  Please, if anyone comments on this post, do NOT try to make it about anything but the point of the post. With that out of the way: My most fundamental, foundational issue when it comes to

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My oldest daughter wrote the following during her freshman year in college.  She wrote it after reading the Biblical verse quoted at the end of the poem.  I was blown away by the imagery then, and I decided I should share it now: He Saves Us, Anyway You're drowning. And no one is there to care. Trapped under the ice. You pound on it, desperate to break free. But all you do is crack the ice.

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A friend of mine once asked me the following question:Is there any advice you can provide on how to talk to my kids about their doubts when I'm riddled with my own? My response to him was:Repentance means nothing more than "change" at its core. What you are going through is a true repentance process - NOT in the classic "bad man becomes good man" construct that most members picture, but in the

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My New Year's Resolution this month is to "recognize the needs of the poor more and share more readily with them."  It is taken from Alma 5:55, which says: Yea, and will you persist in turning your backs upon the poor, and the needy, and in withholding your substance from them?   Honestly, in theory, this should be an easy resolution for me.  I grew up poor, the second of eight children with a

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It is SO hard for many people to truly give up the idea that they know what's best for everyone else. I think as we talk of any topic relative to the Church that we simply have to keep in mind that "my way is not others' way". If we can't do that, if we hold onto the idea that those who do or see or believe or act differently than we do are completely wrong, or less informed, or less

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(Richard) Poll's (Faith) Pillars - Spencer (Clean Cut)

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One of the most baffling aspects of life for me is the stark difference in experiences among humans. I can't explain it - other than to state that I am positive it has little if anything to do with effort or sincerity or even "faithfulness", since I know of any number of people who are more of each of those things than I am but who have not had experiences like mine. It truly baffles me, and I

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I don't actively publicize my blog much - except when I provide a link on another site to something I've written here.  I could spend more time in efforts to expand my readership, but I spend as much time as I am able in good conscience already - and I never have felt the need to market it more vigorously.  However, I have wondered occasionally who reads it of whom I'm not aware and how they find

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I have had a handful of experiences that can be explained rationally in no way except that the heavens were opened to me and I saw or sensed or spoke prophetically of the future or of things unknown to me - very directly and explicitly, not vaguely like a fortune teller. I'm not saying they prove the existence of God, and I'm not saying they are "visionary" in the way that most members would

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1. Nothing "normal" is worse than that moment during an argument when you realize you're wrong.  2. There is great need for a sarcasm font.  3. Map Quest really needs to start their directions on # 5. I'm pretty sure I know how to get out of my neighborhood.  4. Bad decisions make good stories.  5. You never know when it will strike, but there comes a moment at work when you know that you

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A friend of mine wrote the following a while ago, and I want to comment about it here: For me, the whole process of becoming aware of the imperfections and human frailties in the operations of the church (historically etc.) has been a tremendous opportunity for personal growth. It has helped me remove some of my pride, become somewhat less judgmental, hopefully a little more forgiving, focus

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Singles of a Certain Age, or What I Wish Church Leaders Would Understand - Silver Rain (The Rains Came Down)

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I have no illusions whatsoever about the garment being "magical" in some way. I see the "protection" promise as spiritual, not physical. They are powerfully symbolic to me, however, and I absolutely love the concepts of:1) Being reminded constantly of the covenants I have made - the basic ones of the temple that I think are important and powerful. When I am wearing it, I hardly think about it.

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A Different Jesus? Really? And Just When Do Saved Christians Lose Their Souls? - Jeff Lindsay (Mormanity)

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Joseph Smith once said:No man is a minister of Jesus Christ without being a Prophet. If any man has the testimony of Jesus he has the spirit of prophecy.We are not just a church with prophets; we are a prophetic church. At least, we are meant to be, and I think we ARE much more than many people realize - but much less than I believe we can be and hope we will be.

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As I thought this week about my New Year's Resolution this month, one verse from the Book of Mormon jumped into my mind - and, as I have contemplated just how to write about it for this post, it has struck me more forcefully than ever before how comprehensive and concise it is.  As I prepare to wrap up my pondering this month about how I am not better than others to God, I want to begin that wrap

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"It would be wonderful and SO SO much easier if I believed President Monson was a "True Prophet", one that talked to God face to face continuously - not just got revelation - I mean really speaks directly to him day by day. Unfortunately the more I think about it the more I find I can not accept it." The quote above was something a friend of mine said a while ago. My response is below: The

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Post Divorce: A Few Thoughts - Tracy M (Mormon Mommy Wars)

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If I am convinced God does not want me to do something, especially if I have received a personal answer of some kind, I won’t do it – no matter what mortal tells me to do it. I still will “sustain and support” my church leaders in their callings, even if I can’t do exactly what I’m asked or counseled to do, but that wording does not say “obey regardless”. D&C 121 is crystal clear about demanding

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Thanks were given: The Sneaky Genius of Thomas Spencer Monson and Kung Fu Panda - John C. (By Common Consent)

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Objectively, I know very little when it comes to religious things. I just don't. I'm a reasonably intelligent guy, so I can justify intellectually just about anything I want to justify - and I can do it in a way that is logical and somewhat compelling. What I "know" is that it's up to me to construct a paradigm in which I can grow and progress to the best of my ability - that I can't let anyone

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As I considered my New Year's Resolution this week (framing it in my mind this week as "to understand more fully that I am no better in the eyes of God than anyone else"), I thought of the parable of the Good Samaritan - and I suddenly remembered something I had written on Times & Seasons almost exactly four years ago.  It was a re-posting of something one of my "sons" had written - about a

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I LOVE the Mormon view of eternity - the Buddhist-like focus on striving for perfection (completeness, wholeness, full development) toward integration into a cosmic whole (familial / communal sealing). That simply isn't found in ANY other Christian tradition - period. I want my kids to grasp that concept, even if my own perspective is slightly different than what often is taught in church. I do

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A friend of mine shared the following story with me recently, and I want to pass it on just to see if it has the same impact on others as it did on me: I have to admit that I have never really understood the angst and pain that many LDS woman talk about. It's just never been an issue for me, though I like to think myself to be progressive and sympathetic . . . Unfortunately, or fortunately,

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A little over a year ago, I posted this - and I feel like I should re-post it now.  I hope that decision was inspired and that it helps someone: I don't reach out to anyone any differently than I reach out to everyone - unless I feel impressed to do so on an individual level. I smile at everyone; I talk with everyone; I hug or shake hands with everyone; I flirt with all of the older widows (and

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Michael wrote a beautiful comment on a post about why people who struggle in some way remain in the LDS Church.  The original post was by Silver Rain, entitled "Why I Still Belong to the LDS Church" (to which I linked earlier on this blog) - but Michael's comment was in a thread where Clean Cut quoted Silver Rain's post.  The link to that post is here. I have not had the same experience Michael

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1) "The incorrect traditions of their fathers" doesn't apply only to those outside the Church. It applies to the Church, as an institution, and it applies to each individual in the Church, as well. (See the allegory of the vineyard in Jacob 5 for a good description of that concept.) "Incorrect traditions" are interwoven into every organization, from the largest to a single person living alone.

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